We Are Getting Married

Harriet & Oli

Save The Date

September 6th 2025

Welcome to our wedding website – please RSVP and find all the information here!

Harriet Flashman

Oliver Small

Wedding Information

Please find all the information about our wedding below. If you have any questions, please let us know!

Accommodation

Danesfield House has a number of rooms available for wedding guests. You can contact them by phone on 01628 891010 to book a room. We would like to welcome guests that stay at Danesfield overnight to join us and our families for a private breakfast the next morning.

Photos and Videos

Professional photos and videos will be taken throughout the day. Of course you are welcome to take your own, but please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. Professional photographs will be available after the wedding.

What to Wear

Traditional formal daywear for the wedding ceremony. The wedding party will change to Black Tie for the evening, please change into black tie for the evening if you would like to.

Celebration

The wedding ceremony will be the Roman Catholic Wedding Mass.
You are welcome to take communion if you are a confirmed Catholic or you may receive a blessing - you can indicate this by placing crossed arms on your chest.

The wedding celebration will continue at Danesfield House with a seated meal, followed by dancing with a band and DJ.

Parking Area

There is parking available at both
St Teresa's Church and in the adjacent Waitrose car park and at
Danesfield House.

Gifts

Your presence on our special day is what is most important to us. We have had lots of requests for a gift list - as some of you will know, we are moving to New Zealand for a year after our honeymoon - it would be amazing if you can gift towards our honeymoon.

There is a also small registry available for those who would prefer here.

We can’t wait to celebrate with you on our special day!

When & Where

We would love for you join us to celebrate our marriage, and then dance into the night!

The Ceremony

The Reception

RSVP

We would love for you to join us to celebrate our special day. Please let us know if you are able to join us by using this form.